... and I have thoughts.
First of all, can we all just agree how much we wanted Heather and Ernesto to work out?
We can all relate to Heather. She's a stunning girl, and man were all those guys smooth.
Every single guy she had been on a date with is a guy we have all been on a date with.
Un. The sleazy kisser.
Gentlemen, grabbing a girl in for a kiss, isn't always confidence. Sometimes, it is what it is, and in this case, horndawg sleaze ass behaviour.
Dos. The 'we both cheated'.
Mate, cheating is a choice. Never a good one, but it is a choice. And regardless of how much you regret it, your choices are a big reflection of who. you. are. And you do not throw that out so casually on a date. That don't impress nobody.
Tres. The I am in my 30s and gonna date a girl 10 years younger than me (can you see my smirk)
Like no, that's creepy. We have dated that creep. Those creeps are everywhere, especially on Tinder.
Cuatro. Babe, you were just textbook.
You work in wealth management and like to hunt. I can't deal with you.
But finally, Ernesto. And here's what I liked about Ernesto and Heather.
Ernesto was honest about who he is, his background, his culture, the things he likes. He was proud of those things, he owned it. He was real and he showed integrity.
He wasn't the best looking guy out of the bunch. But his masculinity didn't emasculate Heather's feminine charm.
While the other boys were trying to impress her by trying to be more alpha or macho, what most women really want is a man who can make them feel good about themselves. And that's not necessarily from compliments or presents, it's in the way you look at us, listen to us, and make us feel desired (both physically and intellectually).
And I find that's what's happening with dating today. Most guys are trying to be the Un, Dos, Tres, when all you need to be in a man with a gentle soul.
First of all, can we all just agree how much we wanted Heather and Ernesto to work out?
We can all relate to Heather. She's a stunning girl, and man were all those guys smooth.
Every single guy she had been on a date with is a guy we have all been on a date with.
Un. The sleazy kisser.
Gentlemen, grabbing a girl in for a kiss, isn't always confidence. Sometimes, it is what it is, and in this case, horndawg sleaze ass behaviour.
Dos. The 'we both cheated'.
Mate, cheating is a choice. Never a good one, but it is a choice. And regardless of how much you regret it, your choices are a big reflection of who. you. are. And you do not throw that out so casually on a date. That don't impress nobody.
Tres. The I am in my 30s and gonna date a girl 10 years younger than me (can you see my smirk)
Like no, that's creepy. We have dated that creep. Those creeps are everywhere, especially on Tinder.
Cuatro. Babe, you were just textbook.
You work in wealth management and like to hunt. I can't deal with you.
But finally, Ernesto. And here's what I liked about Ernesto and Heather.
He wasn't the best looking guy out of the bunch. But his masculinity didn't emasculate Heather's feminine charm.
While the other boys were trying to impress her by trying to be more alpha or macho, what most women really want is a man who can make them feel good about themselves. And that's not necessarily from compliments or presents, it's in the way you look at us, listen to us, and make us feel desired (both physically and intellectually).
And I find that's what's happening with dating today. Most guys are trying to be the Un, Dos, Tres, when all you need to be in a man with a gentle soul.
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